Drunk words are sober thoughts2/18/2023 ![]() ![]() If your faith is in God, I would say that he sent you the holy spirit, a piece of himself, the greatest creative force that exists. We are put on earth to have an abundant and blessed life. Through hearing their stories or testimonies, along with my own experiences, you find that we all go through trials and tribulations. I am quite an open person that begets openness from people around me. I am blessed to have many influences in my life. Have a morning routine, that allows you to set your day off right. If you have a morning ritual, meditation "namaste" or deep thought, you are setting your intention out there into the universe and this is one of the greatest gift you can give to yourself. Whether your faith is in God, yourself or something else, there is something that gives you strength when all else fails when you have faith. There is something so true about those words. "Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6. We would pray about the week ahead, and the life ahead. Every morning at 6am, we had a family huddle. In the seven years he was with me, he gave me one of the greatest gifts. Even in his absence he taught me so many lesson's. Honestly, I thank God for my father every day. I grew up away from my father but by God's grace and blessing, with a very strong mother. Curve balls that you could and never would see coming. Life has a way of throwing curve balls at you. Faith in God, faith in yourself, faith in your partner/spouse, faith in your kids, faith in your friends, faith in strangers, you get the point. There is something powerful about having faith. believe in something or fall for anything. Because you will be the one hurting the next morning.Īs I grow older and wiser, Ive come to realize two things, 1. ![]() Settling for a drunk text is like drinking cheap vodka it hurts going down and coming up. You don’t deserve to be flourished with mind games that make you overthink and hurt you in the end. You don’t deserve a two am text asking to “hang out”. Knowing what you deserve from a person and holding people to standards is important. You want to believe this person means what they say especially when they’re a little on the edge but the truth is alcohol doesn’t bring out the best in most people. It’s hard to separate reality from fantasy. If someone’s actions don’t add up to their drunk words you’ve got a problem. I wanted to believe that maybe deeeeep down he really meant it but nope he really didn’t. He kept saying “we would talk about it” and we never did. But man was I in for a rude awakening the next day when he not only brushed it off but didn’t ever bring it up again to me. I believed that hey maybe he finally woke up to realize that maybe we could be more then friends. Me being the naïve nineteen-year-old believed it. Once a guy told me he “liked me” via text when he was pretty intoxicated. Take it from someone who has believed the reality is no fun. You will hurt because if you fell for their vicious trap you bought into their lies and the next day everything goes back to normal. In the end the only person left hurting is you. They will lie, they will think drastically and they will assume. They will say whatever they want because their intuition is down. There could be a million reasons why someone drunk texts you but only one person will know the real reason why. Maybe their sober cab bailed and they don’t want to pay for a taxi so they think calling you for a ride is a good idea. Chances are if their having no luck they know they can hit you up for a late night “extravaganza”. What is happening in their surroundings plays into their “drunk agenda.” Maybe their agenda is to find someone to take home that night. People are literally not in their right state of mind to make decisions or accusations. When you’re intoxicated or anyone for that matter your judgment is impaired immensely. ![]()
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